Falling in love with someone is the surest highway to hurt that I know. When the door to love opens, the window to control closes. I have little enough power over my life as it is. The portal to pain is caring too deeply about anyone. That includes me, myself and I. It's scary to think I might never take a deep drink of forever love. Scarier still to gag on yet another deception. Too many lies in this frozen world. And too few destined mergers of the heart.